As I’m sitting down to put together this October 15th Edition of the Carnival of Homeschooling, I glance out my window and see the beginning signs of fall. The leaves on the trees around my home are turning those beautiful … Continue reading
“Casting all your care upon Him, for He careth for you.” I Peter 5:7
I know homeschooling isn’t the easiest job I’ve ever done. Though it is very rewarding, it requires so much of me… personally, physically, emotionally, etc. Sometimes, I need to just step back and review what I’m doing and how my life is going. If I don’t… well, let’s just say I feel like I’m holding my breath!
Here are a few things that I do on a regular basis to keep myself sane, and to keep the stress at bay… (You can find more along these lines at Time4Learning)
1) Make time for the important things in your life… your family, God, your spouse. Don’t just mark off a time slot in your busy schedule, slow down, take a walk, play a game, do something completely relaxing and enjoyable and TALK with those your love! Seriously… take time to smell the roses! Don’t just rush through your day, live in every moment.
2) Don’t allow the small pesky things that will tend to keep us crazy busy… to build up. Say “no” to things that aren’t all that important… (just don’t forget to return the 40 library items that you checked out last month… or you might have a $30 bill!)
3) Adjust your educational goals if they are just not doable for the time being… (You won’t believe how freeing this can be. If you have set goals and are not able to make them, an automatic level of stress accompanies this. Formally change your goals. Write it down if you need to. You won’t believe how big of a difference it makes!) Make a no stress plan for your life.
4) Take a moment to just enjoy life… take a warm bath… sip a cup of cappuccino… light some candles…paint your toenails a wild shade of purple…take a bike ride and enjoy that sunset… do something completely relaxing! Enjoy the blessing of life!
I can’t believe it has been several weeks since I posted. We have all had the nasty yucky cold/flu thing that seems to be going around. Of course, mama got it the worst, and I have been fighting it for 3 weeks now! So, needless to say… it’s been difficult to try to post anything.
Yet, while I was sick and tired… I realized how important it is to have a few “aces in my pocket” to help us make it through a homeschool sick day. At our house, when I’m sick it doesn’t pay to just do nothing all day. That usually makes me nervous and on edge. My children area active and busy… so if they don’t have something to occupy their minds, they will simply… get in trouble! ( or drive me crazy in the process)
I think having an emergency list of things to do in those situations can be a life saver. Things like pre copied logic puzzles, lists of activities, educational videos, and even an online web search can make a sick day a little less crazy! So, in the next few weeks, I will be working on my “emergency plan!” So, stay tuned!
Homeschooling, motherhood, being a wife … it can all be alot of stress. It doesn’t help that most of us self inflict that stress. I, for one, am very guilty of that. I get it in my head that I have to something at a certain time, or in a certain way and if I can’t… Boy am I stressed!!! That isn’t anyone’s fault but my own. I don’t REALLY have to do those things in a set time frame, especially since I homeschool! I guess that comes from having a goal in mind that I think I should reach by a certain time. I usually let it really get to me… recently my precious Lord and even my family has been helping realize that this is not a healthy way of thinking. You see, I not only let that stress ME out… but it affects my family too!
Changing how I view my life is the first step, the second step is to change how I view homeschooling. I must put my personal relationship with God and my family first. Any thing else is of secondary importance. If my family can’t see by my actions that they are more important than these other things… then I am inadvertently telling them that other things are more important than they are. These other things may be good – even great things. It could even be church related activities… but if it takes away from necessary time with your family it could be too much. I have known missionaries who labored for Christ in distant lands, but sent their children to boarding schools and lost them to bitterness and even a hatred for God. God is my strength, and in Him I find joy and peace. Yet, HE has given me my family – that is my DIRECT mandate from Him.
Secondly, I have to consciously MAKE time to cultivate relationships with those that I love. It seems like everyone is busy these days, and making time to show someone you care is even more important. Time means so much…
Third, organize yourself. Organize your personal space, your home, and your homeschool. You can be more efficient when you can find what you need to complete a task. Organize your time – use a calendar that you can get to easily and put everything on it! Print out a calendar with important dates and place it on the fridge. Then everyone in the family can be on the same page.
Finally, make homeschooling work for you. Don’t allow homeschooling to be your task master. Yes, there should be goals and objectives and we should strive to help our children learn at their maximum potential… but that can be done without stress and worry! Make your goals, but be flexible to allow life to happen… and enjoy those different seasons of life before they are gone!
I must confess, I love art. Art has been a passion of mine since I was in Junior High School. I love the smells, I love the messiness, but most of all I love making something beautiful. Because of this, I enjoy teaching art to my children. I do realize that not everyone shares this passion of mine, and for many art is one of the “if we have time” classes.
I can’t say that I really blame people for feeling that way, but I know that including fine arts education in our homeschool really makes a difference. I could list dozens of research studies that demonstrate the power that creative expression has on achievement… but I’ll spare you! I’m sure you are grateful! Anyway, one other statistic that did stand out to me was the fact that teens who were involved in fine arts were many many times less likely to battle depression and or suicidal tendencies. This tells me that art is important to our mental health.
So, with that in mind… teaching art in your homeschool can be done SIMPLY! Here are a few easy ways to establish a balanced art curriculum.
- Introduce your children to art appreciation. This should begin early with a simply appreciation of beauty… nature, people, plants, flowers, photography. As the child gets older this can become more formal by introducing them to art museums and galleries.
- Be sure to teach art history. Introduce your children to Monet, Degas, Picasso, and Van Gogh. Tell them the funny stories behind some of their famous paintings!
- Finally, be sure to experience art. Get your hands dirty and have fun! Many times I will use a theme and incorporate all three of these aspects of art education into my lessons. For example, I will show my kids famous art, then talk about the famous artists that did the work, and then try our hand at replicating something in that style. Although when we first begin to learn art, we usually use Mona Brookes book “Drawing with Children.” This is an awesome book to get kids to see lines and shapes and begin to draw.
I also use old art encyclopedias, art teaching books, and even online art curriculum. T4L has an art curriculum called Time4Art. It brings out all three of these aspects of art education, but you’ll have to make sure your child gets a chance to really make some art of his own!
Can you believe we are already saying “goodbye” to summer and “hello” to fall? With fall comes cooler weather and spending more time inside. Whenever, the weather starts to turn cool I always want to get my house cleaned, organized, and ready for us to be there most of the time. With this in mind, I typically do a household and home school makeover. I go through closets pulling out things that have been pushed to the back and forgotten. I go through shelves of school books removing things we haven’t used in years. I clean off the tables, chairs, shelves, and even go through all of our stockpiled supplies.
We makeover everything in our schoolroom including how the furniture is arranged. Because we spend so much time in our home school room- making it different each year helps keep us from HATING it. Here are some great ideas to makeover how your school room looks!
1. rearrange furniture
2. Put up things that the children have gotten “bored” with – pull them out six months from now and they’ll be new again…
3. Put up some bright posters, make some decorations together
4. Organize their personal belongings into crates, tubs, boxes, etc… and then let them personalize their own space
Our school room isn’t the only thing that needs a makeover. I run out of ideas throughout the year, and am always in need of fresh fun things to do with the children. Here are some awesome ideas from fellow bloggers that just might give you the inspiration that you require… (I had a hard time getting this carnival written – because I spent so much time reading all these great posts!!!)
Cristina at Homes Spun Juggling tells us about how her homeschooling has changed over the years in Not “Write”, Just a Rough Sketch Right Now.
After I finish organizing all of the physical things in the room and freshen up our outlook. I then turn to WHAT I use to teach. For me, the appearance of the room is the easy part. Reviewing and determining what we’ll use for our curriculum requires so much more thought… that I usually put it off til last. (Not a good practice…to say the least.) Sometimes the curriculum that we used last year is awesome, and we want to stick with it. Then there are times, that … well…we just don’t fit together. Usually, we sell or donate that curriculum and find something more suitable to meet our needs. Here are some experienced homeschoolers thoughts on different types of curriculum…
Nerdwallet has launched a personal finance management contest. A great way to teach your kids to manage their finances.
Misty from Homeschoolbytes shows us that there is lots to learn from 4H clubs in her post Amazing Homeschool Adventures with 4H.
Of course, there are always Good Reasons for Teaching the Basics While Homeschooling. Find out while reading this post by Barbara Frank.
Once I’ve gone through organizing the room and organizing our curriculum, I then take a look at our schedule. It’s so easy to get caught up doing too much, and it’s so hard to say “No” to someone who needs a little help. We have found that if we keep our focus on the few things that are most important in our lives (like our family) and say “no” to anything that detracts from that, then we can stay sane. To make sure we aren’t letting too much extra stuff creep back in, each fall we do a schedule makeover as well! We streamline our week to make sure that everything from school – to sports – to work all flows well together. Make sure you check out these blogs for great ideas on how to make your schedule work for you.
10 Reasons Why Homeschooling With A New Baby Is Going To Be Do-able at her blog “Homeschool is not a Typo.“
Does scheduling our homeschool day help us get into a routine or a rut? Let’s find out…
Last, but not least in importance is the fact that sometimes our friendships need a little “makeover” as well. Phyllis posts about that in How to Cultivate Proverbs 13 Friendships on her blog Proclaiming God’s Faithfulness.
It’s been so fun hosting the Home School Blog Carnival here… hope that you got plenty of great ideas to start your own Homeschool Makeover!
This summer has really been crazy – but fun. We have traveled from West Texas to Eastern Ohio, and have been able to see most of our family. That itself was a huge treat. We live in Georgia and the rest of our family lives 850 miles in two different directions. It so great to see children connect and enjoy memories with those we hold dear. Though it’s been crazy and difficult… it has been so worth it.
This week I am buckling down and getting my homeschool organized! I spent nearly 9 hours today putting together my “baby’s” Senior year of highschool, while it wasn’t easy… I think it will be good but challenging year for her.
Bet you’ll never guess what this is supposed to be???
Take a minute to stop by the carnival…
Summer Literature – Big Adventure – Small Investment
Yes, most of us just don’t have the budget to see amazing sights and have the dream vacation that we would love. So, this summer instead of just being dissapointed about not have that perfect vacation… take your own “book-cation!” A vacation with a book. Sure, you can travel all over the world – even the universe if you want to, have amazing adventures, and even have a little romance.
Summer is a great time to catch up on that reading that you have been putting off all year. Take a few days and just block them out… set them aside… and read!
Not sure what to read? Check out all the great online book lists that are age specific.
1) Homeschool Literature has an awesome site about all things involving homeschool and literature… you can even join their online book club!
2) Check out these great lists of books suitable for various ages.
3) I have the book Read for the Heart, and use it for reading suggestions for my children.
4) Go to your library and get a stack!
This weekend we had the priviledge to go to our local small town memorial day festivities. To be honest, I was so suprised. We hear how America is changing. How we are no longer patriots… but an international community. This weekend really changed that in my mind.
I saw hundreds – possibly thousands of people that were VERY patriotic. The entire town stopped and saluted when the National Anthem was sung. In fact, I haven’t seen so much red, white, and blue in a long time… and it really made me proud!
So, when the news tells us that patriotism is waning… or attacks us for our “old fashioned” American beliefs… just know… they haven’t seen the whole picture. America is a country that has been blessed by God, and Americans are still… proud to be American!